A Basic Guide to Colorado Dissolution of Marriage (Divorce)

 

This is a short synopsis of the Colorado law on dissolution of marriage.  The most prominent features of the law are explained for your convenience.This summary is by no means an exhaustive discussion, but should be used as an easy reference about your case. The law continues to change in many areas. The many facts in your case will require individual analysis and handling. Please feel free to discuss any matter.

 

NO FAULT

In Colorado we have "no fault" divorce.  Technically, a marriage is dissolved or terminated because at least one party is convinced that the marriage is irretrievably broken and there is no hope for reconciliation.  The passage of this law relieved the court of the obligation to listen to the Parties’ recite their list of complaints against each other.

 

TIME

Colorado will not permit a party to file an action for dissolution or legal separation until he or she has been a domiciliary (permanent resident) of Colorado for at least ninety days.  After the action is started, there is another required 90-day waiting period before the marriage may be terminated.    However, it ordinarily takes more than 90 days because of court schedules and the complexities in each case.  For those who actually want or need to go to trial to resolve their case, the delay may be considerably longer.    If the parties reach an agreement, the time needed for the actual appearance before the judge is reduced to about ten minutes, or a court appearance may be avoided altogether.    In some cases, affidavits by mail can be substituted for this type of hearing.

 

PROPERTY

The law presumes that all property that is acquired during the marriage is "marital" property for division between the parties.  "Separate" property is not divided, but is set aside to its owner.   Separate  property  is  limited  to:   {1)  property  that  you  owned before  you  were married;  {2}  property  that  you inherited or received by gift  from a third  party  during the marriage; (3) property that was exchanged for property that you owned before the marriage or inherited; or (4}  property excluded by a valid agreement of the parties.   Unlike separate property itself, the appreciation or increase in value of separate property, and the income from it, is considered marital property.

The judge determines the value and divides "marital" property at the date of hearing, not at the date of separation.  It is necessary to determine the value of all of the property, as near as possible to the date the decree will be entered.  "Value" usually means the price at which the item could be sold currently on the open market.   It is also necessary to determine the amount of current debts.   In cases involving separate property  it will  be  necessary to ascertain  the  value of  the separate property on the date  it was acquired or the date of marriage so that the appreciation can be determined and then divided.

Once the "marital" property is identified and valued, it will be divided equitably.   "Equitable division" does not necessarily mean equal.   However, an equal division is a good rule of thumb in most cases.  The division of property is based on a number of factors, including the contribution of each spouse to the acquisition of the asset, including a homemaker's contribution and the economic circumstances of each spouse at the time of division.

 

MAINTENANCE

Maintenance used to be called "alimony."  Either party may permanently waive maintenance. It can also be awarded to either spouse if the spouse (a) lacks sufficient property to provide for his or her own reasonable support and (b) the spouse is unable to support himself or herself through appropriate employment.  The amount of support that is "reasonable" is determined in part based on the standard of living during the marriage.  Therefore, if there is a disparity in earning capacity and financial resources, a court may order maintenance, for an amount and length of time it deems appropriate.  The court must consider the needs of the receiving party and the ability to pay of the other party.   Other factors that are considered are the income that might be received from property, the health and age of the parties, ability to work, and the length of the marriage.  As a general rule, maintenance terminates at a specific date or upon the death of either party or the remarriage of the party who is receiving the maintenance.  Maintenance is always modifiable unless the spouses specifically agree to the contrary.  Maintenance that the parties agree cannot be changed and is fixed as to amount and duration is called "contractual maintenance."   Maintenance is generally taxable to the party receiving it and deductible by the party who pays it. There is a new maintenance statute that will become effective as of January 1, 2014 applicable to cases filed on or before that date. It sets forth a formula available to use in determining maintenance. However, it is neither presumptive nor mandatory, so all of the basic statutory factors still need to be met.

 

PARENTAL RIGHTS AND RESPONSIBILITIES

Since February 1, 1999, the concept of "custody" no longer exists in Colorado.   The term "custody" has been replaced with the term "parental responsibilities."   Parental responsibilities are comprised of parenting time and decision-making responsibilities. The law represents an effort to encourage parents to focus on their parenting responsibilities rather than viewing their children as possessions that are "won or lost." Several factors are utilized to determine parenting time and decision-making responsibilities. Parents may customize how decision-making responsibilities are handled for more flexibility that may include allocating the decision-making responsibility for each issue affecting a child mutually between the parents, individually to a parent, or in any combination.

Parenting time will be allocated on any schedule considered by the parents (or if they cannot agree, by the court) to be in a child's "best interest."

Parents should try to work out the appropriate parental arrangements because they know the family better than any court can possibly hope to know them.   In those cases where parents are unable to agree, evaluators, or Special Advocates who are often trained mental health professionals, can be used to evaluate all family members and make a recommendation.

Allocations of parental rights and responsibilities are always modifiable by the court.  The children's  best  interests  are  the  most  important  factor  in  making  these arrangements. Additional factors include the ability of the parents to work together, the ability of the parents to encourage the sharing of love, affection and contact between the child and the other parent, and geographic location of the parents (including a desire to move from the state).

 

SUPPORT

Colorado, like all other states, has child support guidelines that fix presumed child support amounts.   Child support is calculated based on the gross income of each parent and the parenting time schedule for each child.  Both parents are obligated to support their children. In Colorado, children are usually considered minors until the age of 19.   Some children are legally dependent beyond that age and must be cared for and supported. Medical and dental expenses, medical insurance, travel expenses for parenting time, and educational expenses are also allocated between parents. The Court does not have the ability to order a parent to contribute to the costs of college or other post-high school education.  However, the parties may want to reach an agreement about payment for these expenses.Child support is  always modifiable.   Modification can be ordered whenever the support obligations determined by the Child Support Guidelines change by ten percent (10%) or more.

 

ENFORCEMENT OF SUPPORT

Child support, maintenance, and all court orders may be enforced by invoking the court's contempt powers, which may involve a fine or jail sentence for failure to pay. Support can be deducted from a parent's paycheck by "income assignment." Child support can also be enforced from state to state by a government attorney with the assistance of officials in other states. Maintenance and child support arrearages can be reduced to a judgment when they are past due and collected by garnishment of wages or other assets including bank accounts. However, a parent absolutely may not attempt to enforce child support obligations by withholding parenting time.Parenting time is a right of the children and both parents that is strongly protected by the court. Failure to comply with parenting time orders is punishable by contempt, which may include a fine, jail sentence, and other remedies, including payment of attorney's fees for enforcement.

 

TEMPORARY ORDERS

Once the dissolution action is started, an automatic temporary restraining order becomes effective. This order applies to both parties. Each party is restrained from transferring, encumbering, concealing or in any way disposing of any marital property without the consent of the other party, except in the usual course of business or for the necessities of life. Each party must notify the other of any proposed extraordinary expenditure and account for the same. Each party is restrained from canceling, modifying, terminating or allowing any health insurance, homeowner's or renter's insurance, or automobile insurance to lapse that provides coverage to either of the parties or the minor children or any policy of life insurance that names either of the parties or the minor children as a beneficiary without first providing 14 days advance notice and obtaining the written consent of the other party. Both parties are also restrained from removing the minor children from Colorado without the consent of the other party, and both parties are restrained from molesting or disturbing the peace of the other.The court may enter temporary orders until there is a full trial or settlement of the case. Allocation of parental rights and responsibilities, support of the children, parenting time, maintenance, payment of bills, attorney's fees, use of property, payment of insurance and other matters may be determined. Hearings for temporary orders are frequently held before a magistrate appointed by the judges.Temporary restraining orders, sometimes known as TRO's, restrain a party from engaging in certain conduct. Most commonly, TRO's are utilized when there is a risk of bodily harm and it is necessary to exclude one party from the residence of the other at the start of a divorce action.

 

MANDATORY EXCHANGE OF FINANCIAL INFORMATION

A mandatory exchange of financial information is required in every case. Both parties owe each other and the court a duty of full disclosure of all facts that materially affect their rights and interests and those of the children involved in the case. This duty is an affirmative duty to disclose such information without awaiting an inquiry from the other party. The exchange of financial information is required within 40 days after the Petition for Dissolution of Marriage or other motion has been served. Each party must provide to the other comprehensive documentation and information including a complete copy of personal federal and state income tax returns for the prior three years, the same tax information for any business in which a party has an interest, personal and business financial statements for three years, current debt statements, employment benefits, retirement plan information, bank and investment account information, life and health insurance information, child care expenses, documents related to extraordinary expenses for the children, real estate documents reflecting title, and income verification from all sources. In addition, the parties must exchange a complete financial affidavit that states detailed information about income and expenses, debts, and assets. It is often necessary to have property appraised by professionals who can determine value. "Discovery" techniques (depositions, request for production of documents and things, and interrogatories) may also be used to obtain information from both parties.

 

CONTINUING JURISDICTION

The court retains jurisdiction for five years after the entry of a final decree of judgment to allocate material assets or liabilities that were misstated or omitted and that materially affect the division of assets and liabilities. This recent concept does not limit other remedies but is designed to help protect parties to a divorce from concerns about untruthful disclosures.

 

ATTORNEY'S FEES

Each party is responsible to pay the fees and costs of litigation to his or her own attorney. However, the court also has the authority to require one party to pay all or a portion of the attorney's fees and costs for the other party if necessary to put the parties on equal financial footing before the court

 

ALTERNATIVE DISPUTE RESOLUTION

Neutral facilitators skilled in family law matters may conduct discussions, called "mediation" between the parties, with or without attorneys present, to see If agreements can be reached. Mediation is often required before a hearing will be permitted before the judge. Mediation can be a very useful tool to identify, limit, and solve problems which otherwise would prevent agreement. Arbitration, which is a private decision making process outside of a court setting, may also be used to resolve disputes in appropriate cases.

 

 

 

 Learning to Co-Parent After Divorce

In the typical situation, children generally do best when they are involved with both parents. This fosters healthy social and emotional development.   The best indicator of how well your children will adjust is the level of civility between the parents.   Therefore, it is important for parents to cooperate with each other for the benefit of their children.   We have several articles that we will share with you to help in the process.

Here are some helpful suggestions:

• Cooperate and communicate with your spouse even if it means you have to put aside your own feelings. Avoid placing blame on the other.  Treat each other as a business colleague.

• Keep your children out of the middle by not using them as messengers.  Deal directly with each other or use another adult.

• Do not ask your children to report about what the other parent is doing.

• Do not vent your anger about the other parent in front of the children.  Respect and support a child's relationship with the other parent. Tell your children they do not have to take sides.  Reassure your children that they are loved by both parents and the divorce is not their fault.  Your child's sense of self worth and security is increased by knowing that both parents are working together.

• Encourage telephone and other contact with each parent.   Let your child talk freely and privately with the other parent.  Encourage the other parent to stay involved in school events and extracurricular activities.

• Send your child's toys, clothing, and belongings as needed.

• Support contact with extended family members.

• Educate yourself as much as possible and learn from your mistakes.